Losing touch with friends vs embracing solitude

 Losing touch with friends is definitely something that happens to almost all adults. As we grow older,

 our circle of friends becomes smaller and smaller for a variety of reasons, and today, I'll be talking

 about how my spiritual journey contributed greatly to losing touch with my friends.


Being peculiar and different from a group of friends

When I first discovered yoga and started practicing, I could not shut up about it. I talked a lot about my

 experience with my friends hoping that they would also practice and enjoy the benefits. Some of them

 tried for themselves, but most could not see what I meant. With continued practice, It is very clear that 

doing yoga consistently has tremendously elevated my vibration to a point that I can feel a huge 

difference in the presence of my friends. 


After dropping alcohol as a toxic habit, the friendship circle becomes even smaller

I held on to my habit of drinking for a long time because going out and hanging out with friends over a

 drink was something I knew I did for fun. When I first realized that I do not need to drink to feel good I

 wondered what it is I would love to do for fun. For some time, I accepted invitations to parties from my

 friends even though I knew I wouldn't indulge. I had gotten so accustomed to going out for drinks that 

I was willing to hang out with my people and just chat over non-alcoholic drinks. 


energy transfer is very real my friends,

As I was innocently thinking that I'm having a good time with friends while not indulging, whenever I

 got home I would be extremely tired, almost as if I did participate in the drinking and I'm experiencing

a hangover. I went out a couple more times and still experienced a 'hangover' like feeling, yet I had not

 drunk any alcoholic drinks. What's up with that though? Have you ever experienced something like

 this? When you consistently work on the vibrance of your energy, whenever you go to a place where

 people are actively depleting their energy by drinking, what do you think is the result? Well, your

 energy will be depleted as well. Taking your vibrant energy to such a place will definitely affect it

 negatively. I think that's the main reason why I always felt a hangover-like feeling whenever I went out

 for non-alcoholic drinks.


Naturally, embracing solitude happens by itself

After some time I realized that there is no need to push myself like that. I wasn't enjoying my time

 anyway, because it sucks to be the sober one among people who are drinking. I started embracing

 solitude and boy, I hadn't realized how good it can be. When the mind is pleasant and clear, it became

very interesting to be alone. I enjoy my own company a lot these days, it's probably why I got

 motivated to start this blog. 


Finding a sense of community

While solitude can be amazing, I started this blog to find a sense of community. We live in a vibrational

world and I believe that there are many others vibrating at the frequency that I am at. I know it is only a

 matter of time before my community comes together and we can learn from each other.


That's all for now, feel free to comment if anything resonates, I'd love to hear from you. Also, I'd

 appreciate it if you share too :) peace out✌




Comments

  1. Nice read.personally, I reasonate with this ABT loss of friends. Sometimes I blame myself a lot

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